Episode 10

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11th Feb 2025

To Be or Not to Be - a Silver Sister

Meet Ilise Harris. Ilise has been a freelance make up artist for over 40 years.

She worked on countless American and European fashion and beauty magazines, advertising campaigns and album covers. She travelled to far flung locations and met fascinating people. Liza Minelli, Madonna, Lisa Marie Presley, Kathleen Battle, Anna winter, Mia Farrow - those are some celebrities Ilise enjoyed working with.

She also studied mobile photography and now she became a film maker.

Embracing her own silver curls enabled her to connect to women on the street, in Facebook groups locally and internationally. She decided to make a film about women who stop coloring their hair and embrace their natural grey and silver.

This is often not an easy decision for women. Many experience judgement - from their own mindset and from people close to them. Even strangers feel they can have an opinion how women's hair should be.

In our conversation we also talk about the journey women experience when they move through perimenopause into their wise woman years. What role does hair color play?

What else are women challenging when their hormones are changing? What are the gifts on the other side of menopause?

Ilise shares her own journey and what she learned from the women in the movie.

The movie was shown at the Yonkers film festival to a full house. If you missed it, don't despair. You can still watch it here: Your Roots are Showing.

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Music "The Best Jazz Club in New Orleans" by Paolo Argento

**Disclaimer: the information shared in this podcast is not meant to diagnose or treat medical conditions. This podcast is meant to shed light onto women's experiences, offer new insights, question some assumptions and encourage you to take charge of your health and your soul journey. If you need medical care please see a licensed medical professional **


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About the Podcast

Midlife Woman
a journey through perimenopause & beyond
Can you leave behind the chaos of perimenopause?
What is awaiting you on the other side?
Welcome to "Midlife Woman", a podcast for women who are transforming - physically, emotionally and spiritually.
We talk about this very normal process in every woman's life. We share stories, we hear from experts who give information about hormones, genitourinary symptoms, pelvic floor issues, the often strange and confusing symptoms of perimenopause, sleep issues, memory, sex, passion, sensuality, relationships and what that "second spring" has in stock for you as you travel on your soul's journey. Host Karin Elias wants to empower women to celebrate this important transition . It's not a disease! It's not a secret! There's no shame being in menopause. Women give birth to the whole world, and when they are finished with that stage of their life, they can become joyful, sensual and wise guides to their peers and to younger generations.

About your host

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Karin Elias

Karin is a well being facilitator who supports midlife women on their journey through peri/menopause.She offers bodywork, sound healing, creative movement and mindful/guided meditation for individuals, couples and groups.
Originally from Austria, Karin has made NY her home since 1990.
She holds a B.A. in dance and creative movement from the Vienna conservatory. She is a NY state licensed massage therapist, certified sound healing facilitator and holistic aromatherapist. She trained in non violent conflict resolution and restorative justice and facilitated workshops with the Alternative to Violence Project at Sing Sing.
Her private practice is in Scarsdale, Westchester and she teaches future massage therapists in NYC.